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One practical thing can lighten a very heavy day.

Choose only something you can genuinely and reliably do. The planner will help you offer it without creating pressure.

Find a Way to Help

Make Their Day a Little Easier

Want to help but aren’t sure what to offer? Choose something you can realistically do. You will get a thoughtful message to personalize and send to them.

Your ready-to-send message

Drop off porch groceries

“I’ve been thinking about you. I can drop off a small bag of groceries tomorrow or Thursday. If either would help, you can reply with just “tomorrow” or “Thursday.” I’ll leave everything on the porch—no need to answer the door or visit. If I don’t hear from you, I won’t come by.”

Before you send: Change the timing to something you can reliably do. Respect a no, never arrive unexpectedly, and never access accounts, records, children, pets, or private information without clear permission. If they do not respond, do not take it personally. They are living through an unimaginable loss.

Would it help to have someone listen—someone who understands grief?